Not everyone is suitable for you. In the same way, you may also find that whoever you decided to get committed to is not as nice as you thought in the beginning.
This is one of the reasons why many men fail with women. Instead of trying to get to know the person, they simply go by what they see and jump straight into a relationship.
Women can often sense that and they perceive it as needy behavior. That’s because by not being selective when choosing a partner you display signs of low self-esteem. As you probably know, this is not very attractive.
There is no need to act desperate. A relationship needs to be formed and that doesn’t happen overnight. Even if you feel strong attraction towards someone you need to be aware that those feelings will not always stay the same. As with everything else, you will have your ups and downs.
I’m saying this because bad relationships can really destroy your confidence. You may find it harder to create a bond in future simply because you may feel like a failure in your past relationships. That’s not a healthy mindset to be in.
In addition, this may become a habit. You may keep messing up good relationships with good women because of the expectations you set up. Sometimes, you may perceive someone who means you no harm in a bad way as well.
The best to do is to decide on the qualities you want from your partner. Think of what you like and don’t like in a person. There may be some things that you find completely unacceptable. When you meet someone with those traits resist the temptation and simply walk away.
Another thing to remember is that you should also work on your attractiveness. The kind of woman you can attract is directly proportional to your self-esteem.
Very often we blame the other person for how we feel, however, very often we are the ones who should take responsibility. In the first place, if you don’t set healthy boundaries you can’t expect people to respect you.
No matter what happens, makes sure that you love yourself. Women will come and go, yet you will always have to face yourself in the mirror.